Here’s Your 2nd Video Of The 3-Part Series:

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  1. Sethsfaerie
    Sethsfaerie says:

    I love hearing the emphasis on control and the ability to relax, instead of the usual focus on “tight tight tight”. In talking about the opening and relaxing of the vagina I have a personal, medical question: what about sounds? Through contracting and relaxing, I have discovered deep orgasmic bliss but also have discovered that it can be noisy; childbirth altered my externally, which I believe is the cause. My partners aren’t troubled by this, but I can’t help but freak out a bit and wonder if I need to continue to tighten and tone to a greater degree, or if it’s expected?

    • Saida Desilets
      Saida Desilets says:

      Hi Sethfaerie, sounds are fantastic because the vibrate the Vagus Nerve, which impacts the pelvis. As for your question, I’m not sure what you mean: It sounds to me like everything is great! Please clarify.

  2. Lyn
    Lyn says:

    That exercise of shaking it out heating the groin and sacrum is amazing. I felt everything in me come alive so vital and after a few moments felt really sensual.
    I am a dancer and shake it about a lot, this time was more conscious and ‘ for me ‘
    Thank you

  3. jane
    jane says:

    hi Saida, I found you on Facebook and I appreciate your warmth and generosity and look forward to reclaiming my sensuality. It’s a time of great upheaval for me and I am committed to making the pain worth it!

  4. Sara
    Sara says:

    I just found your site while researching for a Sensuality class I am teaching next month using essential oils. Have you ever used essential oils for intimacy and sensuality? It would flow beautifully with your message! Looking for alternatives so the synthetic realm of toys and tools I’ve recently purchased a Rose Quartz Yoni Wand, as well as some Agate Yoni Eggs. Although I’m well versed in pleasing myself, I often do it very secretly from my partner. when it comes to partnered pleasure I am truly inspired to now approach my partner as a gourmet offering! I’m usually hesitate, and often feel I need to ask permission before approaching my man, and I’m now determined to change that! I also am going to have to use the phrase of “playing the yoni flute” from now on!

    Love & light,

    • Saida Desilets
      Saida Desilets says:

      Hi Sara, thank you!! Yes, I used to be a practicing aromatherapist… LOVE it! Be aware that some women have reported infections from using quartz wands. Taking care of yourself is gorgeous! And your man is blessed to have a partner like you!

  5. Myrna
    Myrna says:


    Just wanted to thank you sharing all your experience and knowledge with us.
    It really is changing me in such a good way. I trust, respect and love myself more and more each day.

    Thank you so much for this

    Much love 🙂

        • Saida Desilets
          Saida Desilets says:

          Hi Myrna, Yes! I do LIVE retreats. To attend those you need to either: 1) Do a weekend training with one of my Ambassadors or 2) Do my JEM course online. The reason is that I want to go DEEP with you and share my more advanced and refined work with you in person. There’s a LIVE version of JEM that happens every spring where you can be part of LIVE group coaching and receive one-on-one attention and ask any question you desire. Thanks for asking!

  6. Mónica
    Mónica says:

    Thank you so much Saida for all this tools! they ‘re fantastic. Today I was willing arriving home and watch this second video! I really feel encouraged by you and connected to all these women that are following this adventure!

  7. Claudia Orantes
    Claudia Orantes says:

    Thank you for this second video Saida, it’s amazing what lies behind our barriers and how easily we can reconnect with our innate sexual power, no matter how long it’s been blocked. It is enormous what one can do with the right information and you are truly revealing some tips that I can already feel are empowering my womanhood. Connecting with my power was hidden behind fears and misconceptions for so long that it’s almost difficult to believe we can so easily regain it… But we can!!! And it’s magnificently pleasurable as so empowering 😉 I’m so happy and grateful for your videos and those 3 secrets we all truly need Saida, looking forward the third one!!!

    • Saida
      Saida says:

      That’s natural Jennifer!

      And the more you do it, the more alive you will feel and the more it won’t matter what you look like. 🙂

    • Saida
      Saida says:


      This is so exciting! I’m so glad to hear about you tapping into your power and joy! It’s all right there inside of you!

  8. Tanya
    Tanya says:

    This video (myth #2) was very enlightening to me. I appreciate you providing the space to learn and embrace my Savy Sexy in a deep manner.

  9. Heather
    Heather says:

    Thank you for this focus on our relationship with ourselves, and living a life fulfilled on our own terms, and how powerfully that spills into our other relationships. I’m excited to learn about playing my yoni like a flute, fun!

  10. Melissa Honeybee
    Melissa Honeybee says:

    Thankyou Saida, This is such valuable wisdom that you share, and it awakens and sustains the natural wisdom we hold as women in our hearts and wombs. I am an artist that paints along these lines.. and I would love to offer you a print of my work (if you like!) Many blessings and brilliant gratitude you lovely! Liss!

  11. Lavrieta
    Lavrieta says:

    Thank you for your leadership of enlightenment in the divine feminine <3


    ( ☆* Be well & joyful
    ´`★.¸¸¸. •°´♥¸.★*´˜ ≈ ·


  12. Dawn
    Dawn says:

    thank you although it has taken me a LONG time to watch your videos i know now I was afraid . I have been working with pelvic floor physio therapy and relaxation technics . I am at a place where I CAN now focus on my self .without shame and can now embrace my body. I had NO idea how out of touch I have been with my own body. thank you so much for awakinening my senses. Video #2 is wonderful easy and so warming!!

  13. Tabitha
    Tabitha says:

    This video said it can’t play on my I phone… I watched the first just fine. Can u tell me where I can see the movie?

  14. Jackie
    Jackie says:

    Both secrets and practices were helpful. I did not realize how disconnected I was from my pelvic region. There was a lot of warmth that came into those areas which I as a bodyworker recognize as a healing response. The other thing that came up for me was my lack of love for my own self and not feeling worthy of love. It’s juicy stuff which I live for and will continue these practices!

  15. Victoria
    Victoria says:

    I am pretty unwell right now and struggling ever more to build and foster a relationship w my body, pleasure and sensuality. I tend to intellectualise and split off from my body. Your ideas and you’re feel ring true Saida. I am trying things on for size as best as I can. Working on releasing resistance

  16. Cheryl
    Cheryl says:

    This is wonderful info !!!! I’ve only just listened to the video
    But am making a date with myself,!!!! To start !!!, have been doing heart to yoni ….
    This REALLY does WORK !! X

  17. Beatris
    Beatris says:

    Wow, Saida, I love all your videos. I found you a couple of weeks ago and have been practicing relaxing my yoni and going to sleep with one hand on my heart and the other on my yoni, connecting them with breath. It’s working and I’m already more orgazmic, happier and more sensual!!! I ordered your book, egg and CD. You are a God’s gift to women 🙂

  18. marian
    marian says:

    It ‘s so important to love yourself en take care of yourself first!! Something all women have to learn. Your words are so helpful.

  19. Marie-lo
    Marie-lo says:

    I feel I started an adventure which will bring me great environments and beautifull views. Finally breaking out a big cloud…. 🙂

  20. Tanya
    Tanya says:

    The video was very interesting and I can’t wait to to experience the healing and knowledge. Waiting patiently for the next video. 🙂

  21. says:

    Nice exercise that is shared here, I will do so and monitor how I feel. Warmth sounds great (especially in wintertime in Montana!) 😉

  22. judy
    judy says:

    Since beginning your program, I have noticed changes within me that are unmistakeable
    and positive. Thankyou for allowing me to find you!

  23. Mirella
    Mirella says:

    Aloha Saida

    I really enjoyed video 2. To me, that reminder of filling myself first and offering a gourmet, was an important reminder.

    Somehow I was sent video 2 twice (once under title of video 1). Please send me video 1 -thank you!

  24. Gaianna
    Gaianna says:

    Wow! I’m really enjoying how you’re offering such useful and easy to digest information Saidi! It’s well laid out, and significant for our times! Thank you!

  25. LaaraB
    LaaraB says:

    I appreciate what you offer Saidi, so simply delicious. I wear my egg, have your book, and can relearn things always in our busy life – thank you for your very helpful ideas. 60 yrs old, and without a partner at only this moment..


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