Entries by Saida Desilets

Low-Grade Pelvic Tension – How Domestication Impacts Pleasure

Do you suffer from low-grade pelvic tension? Do you know what that is? Maybe you’re more concerned with the ‘tone’ of your pelvis than it’s ability to melt open? Perhaps you are gung-ho on your Kegels, possibly contributing to disrupting your sensitivity? Low-grade pelvic tension affects all women, no matter the age, life-style or background. None […]

Why Impeccability Is The New Sexy

The Toltecs have a beautiful definition for impeccability: To be impeccable means to not use words against yourself (self-criticism/self-shaming) or others (criticism/shaming). Let’s add to that definition our ability to reside, fully, in our own sexual sovereignty. From this perspective, impeccability creates a clear presence, one that is not weighed down by the burden of maintaining […]

Instinctual Wisdom

How aware are you of your arousal cues? Do you know what this means? Do you know the difference between “feeling safe” and “being safe”? How connected are you with your own instinctual wisdom? In this month’s delicious tip, I invite you to explore your own natural wildness and how domestication has impacted your life. […]

Addyi – Female Viagra

Finally! The miracle PINK PILL is here… All your desire problems will disappear and you will once and for all be a turned-on, fantasy-inspired, sexually open woman… Right? Wrong. Find out why this Addyi pill (Female Viagra) is not only harmful to your body, but an insult to your innate erotic intelligence. It’s existence marks […]

Erotic Edges

Have you ever desired something that simultaneously turned you on AND scared you? Are you skilled at intimacy & enjoy feeling ‘safe’ in your relationships, yet hesitate when it comes to exploring the mystery of the unknown? You may be stifling your own Eros through avoiding exploring the space where your comfort zone meets your discomfort. […]

Jumping Into The Mystery Of Your Pleasure

Do you ever feel like you need to take a leap of faith, but you’re afraid to? Maybe you would love to experience something new or different, but it feels intimidating? Or perhaps you haven’t yet considered what you’d truly love in a sensual/sexual experience? Taking a ‘leap of faith’ is especially poignant in our […]