Saying ‘No’ With Grace

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Have you ever been on a date where you want to say ‘no’, but feel awkward about it or afraid it may hurt your date’s feelings?

Perhaps you find yourself being more accommodating than what feels in integrity with yourself, yet you are unsure how to set clear boundaries with others?

Or maybe you are giving off confusing messages (feeling one thing and saying another) and having to deal with the outcome of being misunderstood?

Whatever the case, it’s never that easy to say ‘no’, especially when we’ve been socialized to be sweet, pleasant, and accommodating.

Yet ‘no’ is powerful and points to our deeper ‘yes’.

Watch this raw, unedited share of my own experience saying ‘no’:

The best part is continuing this conversation. How do you feel after hearing my thoughts? What are your own concerns about this subject? Please leave me your comments below.

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Are Your Stories Running Your Life?

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We are all amazing story-tellers…

Just listen and you’ll hear stories being told everywhere: In coffee shops, on the News, in Magazines, in Facebook and so on.

Stories are fascinating and they energize us, but they can also keep us from meeting life fully in this moment.

They can also keep us from living our true radiance and from daring into our desires.

In this month’s Delicious Tip, I explore with you the impact of our ‘retelling’ of our story and invite you to become more engaged in being an active CREATRIX in your life.

Leave me your thoughts below, I LOVE your opinion!

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The Wisdom Hidden Behind Our Desire

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Have you ever experienced desire so intensely it actually hurts?

Does your desire keep eluding you and you don’t trust you can actually have your desire?

Or maybe your desire is something you’re not really receptive to and so never make time for it?

Whatever the case, I feel strongly that our desire is but the tip of a phenomenal iceberg, pointing to something much more profound about ourselves than we consciously allow ourselves to be aware of.

It’s vital to understand our desire, so that it doesn’t get hijacked by the billion dollar industries that are currently exceptionally skilled at doing just that.

Watch this month’s Delicious Tip and claim the beauty of your desire:

 

And HAPPY LOVE DAY!

In my world, EVERY DAY is a reason to celebrate love, loving ourselves and loving others.

Be sure to leave me your thoughts on desire below, as this is bound to be a very delicious discussion and your contribution is very welcome.

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Why Belonging Is Crucial & How To Belong Without Selling Out

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Belonging.

It’s a biological imperative, designed to keep us alive.

Although Modern human’s now can survive without relying on a tribe, we still are programmed to seek out belonging.

So crucial is this imperative that we can do almost anything just to ensure that we belong.

But what do we really belong to? A person? A family? A community? A belief system?

In this month’s Del Tip, I explore an idea of mine about belonging that not only instills an incredible sense belonging, but also sustains it no matter what situation I find myself in.

I’m curious where you are at in your journey with “belonging” and “interdependence”? Please leave me your thoughts below so we can continue this discussion.

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Transforming Challenges Into Pearls Of Wisdom

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HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!!

Any excuse to celebrate life is a good one in my books.

Are you like me? Do you enjoy reviewing your year & dreaming into the next one?

What kind of year have you had?

More importantly, where are you at inside yourself now that you are integrating it?

And would you love to join me in creating the best year ever for 2016?

Being intentional, gleaning wisdom from our challenges, and using the three key pieces to stay on track are all part of this month’s Delicious Tip Video:

Now it’s your turn!

Leave me a comment below with the following:

1. Your greatest challenge of 2015 & the pearl of wisdom you got from it

2. Something you would LOVE to have in your life, and more importantly, WHY you would love this.

3. One thing you are going to do now to simplify your life for 2016.

And thank you. For you. For being here. For rocking it was an impeccable, gorgeous, and amazing person in the world.

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Considering A Surgical “Face-lift” For Your Lady-Parts? Think Again…

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Do you ever feel uncomfortable about your own labia?

Perhaps you’ve had an embarrassing ‘camel-toe’ moment?

Or maybe you’ve compared yourself to pictures of other women from the internet or porn?

This is completely normal!

It’s true to say that learning to love and accept our body is definitely a modern Feminine challenge.

AND… there are moments when ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!

When it comes to Labiaplasty (surgery to alter the look of your vulva), I draw the line.

Find out in this month’s Delicious Tip why I believe this surgery to be part of our Modern-Day madness and how coming home to our beautiful body is the counter-balance for healing the rift between our feminine psyche & our body:

This is a very POWERFUL subject so make sure to contribute your thoughts in the comments section!

With our silence we give away our power. All opinions are welcome here, including if you already have had a Labiaplasty surgery or you are thinking of it.

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