I Dare You To Trust…

Do you have difficulty trusting? Yourself? Others? In life?

Maybe you’ve trusted before, only to experience heart-breaking betrayal?

Or perhaps trust, like a foreign country, sounds interesting, but you’ve never known it yourself.

Whatever the case, trust is an inborn trait of all living beings [think babies].

Without it, we’d never survive.

Yet how can we trust when those we’ve loved have broken this precious bond?

When, from birth, the very structure that socialized us simultaneously tore from us our innate connection with life?

When our own body betrays us—through desire or lack thereof?

Yet trust we must as it’s the sole vehicle that carries us out from the weight of our conditioning.

Lucky for us, trust is actually a choice.

The question that begs to be asked is: will we make that choice?

Within each of us, lives our own inherent genius.

The part of us that’s not only profoundly connected with life itself, but which equally understands that which yearns to be born, touched, and expressed within us.

She cannot be tamed or destroyed.

Rather, she is profoundly patient, awaiting the moment we finally come back home to ourselves.

In a world that entraps our desires, how do we distinguish that which returns us to ourselves?

Society. Religion. Politics. Family. And yes, even the so-called “Goddess Movement” have all contributed to the continued illusion that we are not enough exactly as we are.

You were born sovereign—whole unto yourself—and whether or not you know and act as such, you remain sovereign.

If there is an illness in women, it’s the forgetting of our own sovereignty. Instead, we habitually and unquestionably assign our power to everyone and everything else.

Here’s the deal, no one has the power to rescue you…

Heal you…

Awaken you…

Or free you.

… but yourself.

In the moment you choose, shift happens.

The key is to hold your power within yourself as you graciously thank whomever has been present to witness the birth of yourself.

I’ve seen, time and time again, women who assign their radiance to a teacher, leader, lover, and yes, even to the Jade Egg: where any positive or transformational results are simultaneously celebrated and disowned.

Over and over again, we refuse ourselves.

So how than can we trust?

Trust is a radical choice.

The only choice, the choice to come back home to yourself; no matter how messy, shutdown, confused, or empowered we believe ourselves to be.

So I dare you to trust.

To trust in the inherent genius of YOU.

The time is NOW.

You’re the one you’ve been yearning for.

Now it’s your turn.

How do you relate to trust? Are you willing to come home to yourself and rebuild the most essential trust of all? Join the conversation and let me know, in the comments below, if you accept my dare to trust yourself and why {or why not?}.

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Are Your Stories Running Your Life?

We are all amazing story-tellers…

Just listen and you’ll hear stories being told everywhere: In coffee shops, on the News, in Magazines, in Facebook and so on.

Stories are fascinating and they energize us, but they can also keep us from meeting life fully in this moment.

They can also keep us from living our true radiance and from daring into our desires.

In this month’s Delicious Tip, I explore with you the impact of our ‘retelling’ of our story and invite you to become more engaged in being an active CREATRIX in your life.

Leave me your thoughts below, I LOVE your opinion!

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The Wisdom Hidden Behind Our Desire

Have you ever experienced desire so intensely it actually hurts?

Does your desire keep eluding you and you don’t trust you can actually have your desire?

Or maybe your desire is something you’re not really receptive to and so never make time for it?

Whatever the case, I feel strongly that our desire is but the tip of a phenomenal iceberg, pointing to something much more profound about ourselves than we consciously allow ourselves to be aware of.

It’s vital to understand our desire, so that it doesn’t get hijacked by the billion dollar industries that are currently exceptionally skilled at doing just that.

Watch this month’s Delicious Tip and claim the beauty of your desire:

 

And HAPPY LOVE DAY!

In my world, EVERY DAY is a reason to celebrate love, loving ourselves and loving others.

Be sure to leave me your thoughts on desire below, as this is bound to be a very delicious discussion and your contribution is very welcome.

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Why Belonging Is Crucial & How To Belong Without Selling Out

Belonging.

It’s a biological imperative, designed to keep us alive.

Although Modern human’s now can survive without relying on a tribe, we still are programmed to seek out belonging.

So crucial is this imperative that we can do almost anything just to ensure that we belong.

But what do we really belong to? A person? A family? A community? A belief system?

In this month’s Del Tip, I explore an idea of mine about belonging that not only instills an incredible sense belonging, but also sustains it no matter what situation I find myself in.

I’m curious where you are at in your journey with “belonging” and “interdependence”? Please leave me your thoughts below so we can continue this discussion.

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Transforming Challenges Into Pearls Of Wisdom

HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!!

Any excuse to celebrate life is a good one in my books.

Are you like me? Do you enjoy reviewing your year & dreaming into the next one?

What kind of year have you had?

More importantly, where are you at inside yourself now that you are integrating it?

And would you love to join me in creating the best year ever for 2016?

Being intentional, gleaning wisdom from our challenges, and using the three key pieces to stay on track are all part of this month’s Delicious Tip Video:

Now it’s your turn!

Leave me a comment below with the following:

1. Your greatest challenge of 2015 & the pearl of wisdom you got from it

2. Something you would LOVE to have in your life, and more importantly, WHY you would love this.

3. One thing you are going to do now to simplify your life for 2016.

And thank you. For you. For being here. For rocking it was an impeccable, gorgeous, and amazing person in the world.

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Considering A Surgical “Face-lift” For Your Lady-Parts? Think Again…

Do you ever feel uncomfortable about your own labia?

Perhaps you’ve had an embarrassing ‘camel-toe’ moment?

Or maybe you’ve compared yourself to pictures of other women from the internet or porn?

This is completely normal!

It’s true to say that learning to love and accept our body is definitely a modern Feminine challenge.

AND… there are moments when ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!

When it comes to Labiaplasty (surgery to alter the look of your vulva), I draw the line.

Find out in this month’s Delicious Tip why I believe this surgery to be part of our Modern-Day madness and how coming home to our beautiful body is the counter-balance for healing the rift between our feminine psyche & our body:

This is a very POWERFUL subject so make sure to contribute your thoughts in the comments section!

With our silence we give away our power. All opinions are welcome here, including if you already have had a Labiaplasty surgery or you are thinking of it.

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