Delicious Tip – Radical Self-Love

Happy Valentine’s Day! 

Are you love-starved? Love-sick? In-love? Out-of-love? Hopelessly-in-love?

Every day is LOVE-day, yes?! Each moment an invitation into love… especially self-love.

In fact, self-love is the secret ingredient to more pleasure, mastering your sexual energy, and enjoying deep, beautiful relationships with the people in your life.

Come and meet one of my love’s, Romeo (yes, that’s really his name), and find out what delightful love-challenges I have in store for you: 

What insights have you come to in exploring my questions? Which action steps are you taking towards radical self-love?

Leave me your thoughts and ideas in the comment section below and we’ll continue exploring what love means to each of us.

Loving all that you are,

14 replies
  1. Claire Magdalena
    Claire Magdalena says:

    Saida~
    Ah yes, the time worn challenge of actually putting ourselves on our own to-do list. I love this! For me scheduling in me time is not that sexy but it works. Making time/space for Jade Egg and other Radiance practices and giving myself breaks during my day (rather than soldiering on!) and getting outside, is where I see myself giving back to me (aka self-love) I appreciate your sweetness and short but actionable tips! Go woman, you rock!

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    • Saida Desilets
      Saida Desilets says:

      Thanks Claire! I get that we are all super busy AND I get how VITAL it is to cultivate delight and aliveness for ourselves… so I’m thrilled that this video is helpful and inspiring to you.

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  2. Stefan Svedberg
    Stefan Svedberg says:

    HI SAIDA!
    SINCE I AM NOT SO GOOD AT LOVING MY SELF I LOVE TO HEAR YOU TALK ABOUT IT! IT WAS NOT UNTIL LATER IN LIFE I LEARNED AND UNDERSTOOD ABOUT THE IMPORTANCE OF LOVING ONESELF.
    LET ME JUST SAY HOW MUCH I APPRECIATE YOUR WORK FOR MANKIND SAIDA! THE LIVING AND SENSITIVE WAY YOU ARE DOING THIS IS FASCINATING I THINK FOR MOST PEOPLE NOT ONLY IN MY AGE AS PENSIONED BUT FOR ALL WOMEN AND MEN AS WELL SINCE WE OFTEN ARE A BIT ASHAMED TO SHOW OUR FEELINGS THINKING THAT THOUGHTS ARE MORE IMPORTANT IN LIFE.
    THE WAY YOU ARE DOING THIS WITH YOUR VOICE AND LIVING CHARM HAS CONVINCED ME OF THE IMPORTANCE OF SHOWING YOUR FEELINGS AND LOVE IN THE WAY YOU JUST DO DEAR SAIDA. THERE ARE MOMENTS IN LIFE WHEN YOU FEEL A KIND OF HAPPINESS IN LIFE. ONE OF THOSE MOMENTS IS WHEN I SEE AND HEAR YOU TALK ABOUT LOVE! THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU SAIDA!

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  3. Rosslyn PIcton
    Rosslyn PIcton says:

    Hi Saida,
    I receive your delicious tips and so appreciate what you are doing to assist women in opening up to our beauty and sensuality. Today, St. Valentines Day I am house and animal sitting for friends who are away on vacation. I took my little four legged friend to the local park here in Toronto, where it is -7 degrees c. I decided to get on a swing and just let go!! It was so invigorating as I felt the cold fresh air on my face and also felt a sense of play and freedom. I am learning that this is just one very small thing I can do to start opening up more to myself and the world.

    Happy Valentines Day and Thank You!!! xo

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  4. Mary
    Mary says:

    Dear Saida, Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience with us, the self-deprived lovers. I am learning how to self-care and self-love. Every piece you share with us helps!!

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  5. Johanna
    Johanna says:

    Hello gorgeous,well,thanks to your Inspiration,i got my First jade egg yesterday and have eben practicing with it yesterday and today,how fitting for this Time of the Year 😉
    I can See and Feel how this will be a marvelous Journey to accepting and loving myself more fully.
    Thank you beautiful for all you embody and Share !!!
    Big hugs

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  6. sheela
    sheela says:

    Thanks for the inspiration Saida! So, my actionable steps for moving into my loving life are:
    -continue with Ecstatic Dancing
    -continue w/Massage Trades
    *have scheduled:
    -OM workshop
    will schedule:
    -Tantra workshop
    -Belly Dance classes (in process of finding the right fit w/teacher); love Rachel Brice’s work, but she’s out of town)
    That’s it for now! And I’m opening up to what else the Universe has in store for me to open up to love!
    Cheers,
    Sheela

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  7. Paula
    Paula says:

    Hi Saida,
    First of all, thank you for being who you are and doing what you do for all of us. Now, I can honestly say that even taking the time to do this is an act of self love for me. To slow down, contemplate, even for a second, to do it now, is taking time for me. In the past I would have been oh yea, I want to do that, LATER. And then later never came. So as an act of self love I am recognizing this small but significant feat. In regard to what me feel loved it would be for my partner to do something for me, like just listen to me and be interested in what I am interested in, rather than do what he likes to do for me but which isn’t important or meaningful to me. For example, this morning I was meditating and doing some breathing practices and I wanted to do them first thing as they should not be done immediately after eating. My man made me breakfast. One he didn’t tell me. Two, he knows I don’t get up and eat right away because of these practices. Three, this is important to him because it is his way of showing love. It is what HE likes to do and thinks it should be meaningful to me. I have tried to talk to him in a nice way about this but he never seems to get it. Don’t get me wrong I appreciate his effort. But in my mind it meant more to him than me. Anyway, what can I do for radical self love? Be very aware to think loving thoughts about my body. Take time for my body. I have been doing the jade egg practices from your ebook, without the egg, as I am traveling. Today I added a breast massage.. Yesterday I did something I hadn’t done in years… I read for fun an erotic story and actually had an orgasm… I’ve been feeling pretty dead for a while so it completely shocked me… Obviously there is more going on here… hmmmm.. And I was thinking of asking my man for a massage but also I would like to give myself a foot massage, and maybe take a long hot shower and lather myself up with coconut oil, not in that order!! lol!! And I already told my man I would like to read him the story I read yesterday as he likes sexy stories! Wow! That seems like a good start:) Bottom line is I need to go slow, take time, break away from the to do list… I’m starting to get it and actually be able to practice it. Baby steps…

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